Gabrielle Blair, author of Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion

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Porter Square Books: Boston Edition is delighted to welcome New York Times best-selling author Gabrielle Blair, author of Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion! Dr. Christine Koh will join her in conversation. This event will take place at Porter Square Books: Boston Edition (50 Liberty Dr. Boston, MA 02210) on Tuesday, March 7 at 7pm.

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In Ejaculate Responsibly, Gabrielle Blair offers a provocative reframing of the abortion issue in post-Roe America.

In a series of 28 brief arguments, Blair deftly makes the case for moving the abortion debate away from controlling and legislating women’s bodies and instead directs the focus on men’s lack of accountability in preventing unwanted pregnancies.

Highly readable, accessible, funny, and unflinching, Blair builds her argument by walking readers through the basics of fertility (men are 50 times more fertile than women), the unfair burden placed on women when it comes to preventing pregnancy (90% of the birth control market is for women), the wrongheaded stigmas around birth control for men (condoms make sex less pleasurable, vasectomies are scary and emasculating), and the counterintuitive reality that men, who are fertile 100% of the time, take little to no responsibility for preventing pregnancy. 

The result is a compelling and convincing case for placing the responsibility—and burden—of preventing unwanted pregnancies away from women and onto men.


Gabrielle Blair the founder of Started in 2006, it has been named a Website of the Year by Time magazine; praised as a top parenting blog by The Wall Street Journal, Parents, and Better Homes & Gardens; and it won the Iris Award for Blog of the Year. Gabrielle’s first book, Design Mom: How to Live with Kids, a New York Times bestseller, was published in 2015 by Artisan. She is also a founder of Alt Summit, the blockbuster annual conference for online content creators and creative entrepreneurs, currently in its thirteenth year.

As a thought leader for more than fifteen years, Gabrielle has written and moderated hundreds of discussions on difficult topics and interviewed some of the most influential people in the world. Her writing is quoted and shared across the globe daily. Gabrielle and her husband, Ben Blair, have six children—Ralph, Maude, Olive, Oscar, Betty, and Flora June. After six years in Oakland, California, they moved to a small town in Normandy, France, where they are renovating a house from the 1600s. Follow her on Instagram, Twitter, Pinterest, and Facebook. 

Dr. Christine Koh is a music and brain scientist turned multimedia creative. She is a fierce believer in the power of small moments and actions, and vulnerable, authentic storytelling. She is an award-winning author, podcaster, designer, and creative director. You can find her at @drchristinekoh on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

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Tuesday, March 7, 2023 - 7:00pm

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Porter Square Books: Boston Edition
50 Liberty Drive
Boston, MA 02210

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