Grubbie Debuts: Judy Bolton-Fasman with Tova Mirvis, Asylum [Virtual]

Join Porter Square Books and Grubstreet in the latest installment of the Grubbie Debuts series, featuring GrubStreet graduate Judy Bolton-Fasman for the launch of her debut memoir, Asylum, a Memoir of Family Secrets. Judy will be joined in conversation by Tova Mirvis. This event is free and open to all, hosted on Crowdcast.

Register to join the event on Crowdcast here: https://www.crowdcast.io/e/grubbie-debut-asylum

How much do we really know about the lives of our parents and the secrets lodged in their past? Judy Bolton-Fasman's fascinating saga, Asylum: A Memoir of Family Secrets, recounts the search for answers to the mysteries embedded in the lives of her Cuban-born mother, Matilde Alboukrek Bolton and her elusive, Yale-educated father, K. Harold Bolton.

In the prefatory chapter, "Burn This," Judy receives a thick letter from her father and conjectures that the contents will reveal the long hidden explanations, confessions, and secrets that will unlock her father's cryptic past. Just as she is about to open the portal to her father's "transtiendas," his dark hidden secrets, Harold Bolton phones Judy and instructs her to burn the still unopened letter. With the flick of a match, Judy ignites her father's unread documents, effectively destroying the answers to long held questions that surround her parents' improbable marriage and their even more secretive lives. Judy Bolton, girl detective, embarks on the life-long exploration of her bifurcated ancestry; Judy inherits a Sephardic, Spanish/Ladino-speaking culture from her mother and an Ashkenazi, English-only, old-fashioned American patriotism from her father. Amid the Bolton household's cultural, political, and psychological confusion, Judy is mystified by her father's impenetrable silence; and, similarly confounded by her mother's fabrications, not the least of which involve rumors of a dowry pay-off and multiple wedding ceremonies for the oddly mismatched 40-year-old groom and the 24-year-old bride. Contacting former associates, relatives, and friends; accessing records through the Freedom of Information Act; traveling to Cuba to search for clues, and even reciting the Mourner's Kaddish for a year to gain spiritual insight into her father; these decades-long endeavors do not always yield the answers Judy wanted and sometimes the answers themselves lead her to ask new questions. Among Asylum's most astonishing, unsolved mysteries is Ana Hernandez's appearance at the family home on Asylum Avenue in West Hartford, Connecticut. Ana is an exchange student from Guatemala whom Judy comes to presume to be her paternal half-sister. In seeking information about Ana, Judy's investigations prove to be much like her entire enterprise--both enticing and frustrating. Was Ana just a misconstrued memory, or is she a still living piece of the puzzle that Judy has spent her adult life trying to solve?

Readers will relish every step and stage of Judy's investigations and will begin to share in her obsession to obtain answers to the mysteries that have haunted her life. The suspense, the clairvoyant prophecies, the discoveries, the new leads, the dead-ends, the paths not taken--all capture our attention in this absorbing and fascinating memoir.

Judy Bolton-Fasman is a proud graduate of Grub Street’s first Memoir Incubator class. She is the arts and culture writer for JewishBoston.com. Her essays and reviews have appeared in major newspapers including the New York Times and literary magazines such as McSweeney’s, Brevity, Catapult, The Rumpus as well as two essay anthologies, She is a Pushcart Prize nominee and has been awarded fellowships from the Virginia Center for Creative Arts, the Mineral School in Washington State and Vermont Studio Center. Her memoir, "Asylum: A Memoir of Family Secrets” is published by Mandel Vilar Press.

Tova Mirvis is the author of The Book of Separation, a memoir, which was a New York Times Book Review Editor’s Choice and was excerpted in the New York Times's "Modern Love" column. She is also the author of three novels, Visible City, The Outside World, and The Ladies Auxiliary. which was a national bestseller. Her essays have appeared in publications such as The Boston Globe, The Washington Post, Real Simple, and Psychology Today.

This event is part of the Grubbie Debut series - join us for future events! Learn more about Grub Street at https://grubstreet.org/.

Register to join the event on Crowdcast here: https://www.crowdcast.io/e/grubbie-debut-asylum

Event date: 

Thursday, September 9, 2021 - 7:00pm

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Asylum, a Memoir of Family Secrets Cover Image
$24.95
ISBN: 9781942134770
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Mandel Vilar Press - August 24th, 2021

How much do we really know about the lives of our parents and the secrets lodged in their past? Judy Bolton-Fasman's fascinating saga, Asylum: A Memoir of Family Secrets, recounts the search for answers to the mysteries embedded in the lives of her Cuban-born mother, Matilde Alboukrek Bolton and her elusive, Yale-educated father, K. Harold Bolton.


The Book of Separation: A Memoir Cover Image
$14.99
ISBN: 9781328477873
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Mariner Books - September 18th, 2018

The memoir of a woman who leaves her faith and her marriage and sets out to navigate the terrifying, liberating terrain of a newly mapless world

Born and raised in a tight-knit Orthodox Jewish family, Tova Mirvis committed herself to observing the rules and rituals prescribed by this way of life.


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